despite already suffering depression, which are the effects of the rubbish borne by the juniormost sibling and dad (e.g. the visit to uk in may'10), the discomfort of going back to spore is that the household perpetuates overall depression.  in terms of the pervasive household behaviour there's likely a requirement to have to endure a cycle of  a protest behaviour before pushing the correct buttons (c.f. the juniormost sibling getting on with filthy rubbish before eventually pushing the buttons on dad to do his bidding). it might appear practical but on deeper terms it is consequently not sound for personal development because those buttons to push are immoral.  Indeed better be at peace in poverty than reap rubbish in material opulence. five members in one household will be divided, three against two and two against three (Luke 12:52).  it is possible to get back to spore only if there's a radical change in the household. but perhaps they have already hardened and have a delusion of self-congratulatory comfort.